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Empower Deeply Intimate Relationships.

A safe, playful way to explore intimacy with your partner. Personalized profiles, meaningful games, and deeper connection.

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Why Couples Love Attuned

The first app that makes intimacy exploration intelligent, playful, and deeply personal

Science-Backed Profiles

Grounded in peer-reviewed sexology research, including the Kinsey Institute's Dual Control Model. A 54-question assessment maps your arousal patterns using clinical frameworks.

Playful Exploration

Explore 800+ activities across 9 intensity levels, from Platonic to Attuned. A modern and informed twist on Truth or Dare, tailored to your shared comfort and connection.

Always Consensual

Hard boundaries are never crossed - full stop. Three intimacy levels let you explore at your own pace. And of course, Partners only see what you decide to share.

Inclusive by Design

Design for all couples, throuples, and beyond. Inclusive of all gender identities and sexual orientations, with anatomy-aware matching for personalized experiences for everyone.

Grows With You

AI-informed personalization means no repeated activities. Fresh experiences that evolve as your relationship deepens, introducing new topics when all are ready.

How Attuned Works

Three steps to deeper connection: Discover, Play, Grow

1

Discover Your Profile

Complete our intimacy assessment covering arousal style, power dynamics, and personal preferences. Understand what excites you and what holds you back.

2

Play Together

Engage in personalized Truth or Dare activities tailored to both your profiles. Every experience respects your boundaries while encouraging exploration.

3

Grow Over Time

Our system learns and adapts, introducing new topics gradually. No repeated activities—always fresh, always relevant to where you are now.

Your Intimacy Profile

Built on peer-reviewed sexology research including the Sexual Excitation/Inhibition Model (Dual Control Model) from the Kinsey Institute. We map your unique arousal patterns across five intimacy domains.

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What We Measure

  • Arousal Propensity

    Based on the Dual Control Model: how responsive you are to sexual cues, and what factors might create hesitation.

  • Power Dynamic

    Your orientation toward giving or receiving control—Top, Bottom, Switch, or still discovering. No judgment, just understanding.

  • Activity Preferences

    Mapped using a Yes/Maybe/No framework from clinical sexology research—identifying what you want, what you're curious about, and what's off the table.

  • Boundaries

    Your hard limits are always respected and never suggested. Full stop.

Five Intimacy Domains

Your profile measures interest and comfort across five dimensions of intimacy—creating a complete picture of how you connect.

Sensation

Interest in physical intensity and sensory experiences

Connection

Emotional intimacy and vulnerability with your partner

Power

Attraction to structure, leadership, and control dynamics

Exploration

Openness to novelty, performance, and new experiences

Verbal

Comfort with vocal expression and intimate communication

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Partner Alignment

Compare profiles to discover where you connect and where you can grow together.

Power Complement

See how your dynamics fit together.

Activity Overlap

Discover activities you both want to explore.

Truth Overlap

Topics you're both comfortable discussing.

Growth Areas

Where curiosity meets openness.

Privacy First: You control what you share. Partners only see what you agree to reveal.

Sample Activities

A taste of the playful experiences waiting for you. Every activity is personalized to your shared comfort level.

Attuned offers personalized Truth or Dare activities for couples. Truth questions explore desires, fantasies, and intimate preferences. Dare activities include sensual experiences like ice cube play, light bondage, and teasing games. All activities are tailored to both partners comfort levels and boundaries, ensuring a safe and playful experience.

ALEX,
YOUR TURN TO SHARE YOUR TRUTH

What part of your partner's body makes you instantly aroused that they have no idea about?

Skip
Enjoyed!

JORDAN,
YOUR MOVE ... ENJOY!

Drag an ice cube across your partner's bare skin... watch them shiver as it melts.

Skip
Enjoyed!

ALEX,
YOUR TURN TO SHARE YOUR TRUTH

If your partner would sensually worship your body for an hour, where would you want them to start and spend most of their time?

Skip
Enjoyed!

JORDAN,
YOUR MOVE ... ENJOY!

Let your partner tie you to a chair and tease you mercilessly... no touching back!

Skip
Enjoyed!

ALEX,
YOUR TURN TO SHARE YOUR TRUTH

What position have you been too shy to ask for but fantasize about constantly?

Skip
Enjoyed!

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Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about Attuned and how it can help deepen your connection.

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Attuned is a couples intimacy app that helps partners explore their desires through personalized profiles, meaningful games, and guided conversations. Built on research from the Kinsey Institute, it provides a safe, playful way for couples to deepen their connection and discover new dimensions of their relationship.

Yes, Attuned prioritizes your privacy and security above all else. Your intimate data is encrypted and never shared with third parties. We will never sell your data. You control exactly what your partner can see, and all sharing requires explicit consent.

Each partner privately completes an intimacy profile covering arousal patterns, power dynamics, and personal boundaries. Attuned then intelligently matches your preferences to suggest personalized Truth or Dare activities, conversation starters, and games tailored specifically to both of you.

Attuned offers a free tier with core features including your intimacy profile and daily activities. Premium features are available through subscription for couples wanting to unlock the full experience with unlimited activities and advanced matching.

We use bank-level encryption (TLS/HTTPS) for all data transmission. Your intimate profile data never leaves our secure servers, and our AI personalization works without exposing your personal information. You can delete your account and all data at any time.

Attuned is designed for couples at any comfort level. Each partner sets their own boundaries independently, and the app only suggests activities that respect both partners' limits. As you grow together, you can gradually expand your comfort zones at your own pace.

Unlike generic relationship apps, Attuned is built on scientific research about arousal and intimacy. It creates truly personalized experiences based on your unique profiles, not generic content. The AI learns your preferences over time, ensuring fresh, relevant activities that grow with your relationship.

No, Attuned's AI ensures you won't see the same activities repeatedly. The system learns what you enjoy and continuously generates fresh content tailored to your evolving preferences. As your relationship grows, Attuned introduces new experiences at the right time.

Absolutely. Attuned welcomes all gender identities, sexual orientations, and relationship structures—from couples to throuples and groups up to 6 partners. Our anatomy-aware activity matching ensures relevant, personalized experiences for everyone. Whether you're in a same-sex relationship, polyamorous, non-binary, or anywhere on the spectrum, Attuned adapts to you.

Consent is built into every interaction. Set hard boundaries that are never crossed—full stop. Every activity includes a skip button. Choose from three intimacy levels (Platonic, Exploring, or Intimate) and activities automatically filter to your comfort zone. Your partner only sees where you align, never your individual answers.

Attuned measures your preferences across five dimensions: Sensation (interest in physical intensity), Connection (emotional intimacy and vulnerability), Power (attraction to control dynamics), Exploration (openness to novelty), and Verbal (comfort with vocal expression). These domains create a complete picture of how you experience intimacy and help match you with compatible activities.